Don't Give Up Until You Win

We all have had times we wanted to let someone know something, that we thought would make them better. In some cases we are timid and decide not to communicate that we felt something was wrong. Other times we moved forward with confidence that certainly the person would see the wisdom of our logic and agree. It stung when

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Have you ever met someone that has the effect that leaves you encouraged by the uplifting, enthusiastic charisma that person able to express optimism in the bleakest of times, someone who seems as if they could win at anything? Would it not be great to have that person there with you whenever you need a boost? Someone who knows how to win?

While there are those that are predisposed to being encouragers just as others are to athletics, designing, or cooking, you too can learn be an uplifting and optimistic person. A person who knows how to win!

Never underestimate the ability of humans to adapt and adjust to anyway that will lessen pain or increase pleasure. Very rarely does anyone remain unchanged if there is enough of an inconvenience or incentive. So most change becomes triggered by these two things; one finds that there are some primary things that will cause a person to adapt to have that winner attitude. I encourage you to Don’t Give Up Until You Win!

First, know what you want. Ask the question what would you do with a million dollars? Believe are not most people are stumped by this question past a car, house, and getting out of debt. The answer of invest it just doesn’t cut it because most have not educated themselves to be savvy investors. The point is being able to imagine, explain, describe and experience the feeling of what you want. Create a pre deja-vu experience. This brings you closer to the win.

Second, know why you want it. When you answer this question it is a win for you if you are truly moved by your purpose. This is creating pleasure for yourself or removing pain. Both can give you a reason. Both hold thought based on some emotion. Without this a win that sustains you to the end is not going to happen. You have to know your motivation to when and it must be an internal response.

Thirdly, put a plan together. Now this is a place where complications can take place. You have you destination, the what. You have your purpose, the why. The plan is what steps do I take to reach my destination?

Do I know anyone else who did it? What did they do?

Give the level of planning you would give on taking a long trip. Then begin to assemble what you need to make the trip.

Fourth, work it, work it, work it. This is where obstacles are overcome, you build a habit of winning. Fears are faced. Disappointments are many. This is what separates those who give up from those who don’t quit until they win. You must be willing to do what others are not willing to for obtaining what you desire. This is the reason your purpose must be worth seeing the journey to the end. This is where you win not because you obtain but because of whom you become as you win.

Lastly, make sure you keep up positive relations with others.Do You Cherish Your Relationships? It is just no good not to be able and celebrate your success without those you care about enjoying your win as well. Whatever happens Don’t Quit Until You Win!

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 Hi! My name is Vonzel Sawyer. I am a husband, father, and grandfather. I started blogging to share from my experience, knowledge, wisdom, instruction, and understanding to help persons maxamize and magnify the positive in their life. That is why I used the terms "maximum" and "magnification" and combined them into a single word "maxafication". Just like something can be magnetized or winterized. I want to impact people to live largely and fully each day!

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